venting a little

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Let me tell you about what girls know about things that hurt

Most guys don't turn a girl down that they don't want a relationship with, you know what they do?

They pretend like they do want one, they know they don't. but tell you they do, they lie and say they love you and after doing everything they can to get a girl to fall in love with them, all at once they get sick of sleeping with you,  they stop answering texts and calls, but girls have to be "chill" and "cool"; after not hearing from the guy for a week, the guy that told you last week that he could see buying a house with you, you start to get frustrated and confused and angry but you try to fight it, and wait for a response, but none comes, so eventually you get sick of waiting and you don’t even care if he ends things, you just want him to tell you something so you have some closure, so you send a text telling him how you feel and how what he's doing hurts and you just want an answer

And he finally responds "you're psycho"

Calls you this, the same girl who took her time and laughed at his dumb jokes and was a cool, chill girl who just wanted to talk to a boy she liked.. the girl that was nice to him and let him have sex with her and let him kiss her and let herself have feelings for him, you're being called psycho because you have emotions, your feelings are being called wrong and you’re being called crazy for having them, they are telling you that because you have loving and caring feelings inside your heart for someone (who said they felt the same), they are saying because of that, that you are mentally unstable

and it doesn't end there does it girls?

No, they can’t just say they lied or that they don’t feel that way anymore or anything like that, it is suddenly all your fault because you have emotions, and that’s still not the end either.

they can’t just leave you alone and forget it, they have to “warn"  every male they know that you’re crazy, they pathetically make the excuse that the other guys should know because they are concerned for them, but that’s not the real reason, the reason they tell everyone is because in their sick, twisted insecure mind the reason the girl is mad is only because she is "obsessed"  with him, he’s just so wonderful and awesome and hot and cool that she just could not help herself no matter how he acted, (and he tells his friends he didn't even act like he liked her, which is a lie) to them he says that despite the fact that he didn’t lead her on (lie) he's so irresistible  that she became obsessed and that is the reason she is so mad, he actually thinks her anger over being deceived and lied to for months is some sort of compliment to him; it’s the only explanation his ego will let him accept, so she’s crazy and she is obsessed because he’s just so great and cool and macho, and so he just tells everyone he possibly can and ruins her reputation and ruins her chances of being in a relationship with anyone who knows a guy, that knows a guy, that knows the first boy who called her psycho. and she can’t defend herself because the more she tries the more he can say she is crazy and obsessed

and if any guys do give her a chance, that have heard the rumor that she’s “clingy & psycho” she is stuck trying to figure out how to act with him, she’s afraid of everything she wants to say, she lives every relationship trying to prove her innocence from day 1, with any new guy, she starts relationships with a bad grade, one she didn't even earn, and one wrong move or misunderstanding and the new guy is like "wow maybe her ex was right, she’s clingy, I think”  because someone already put it in his head and he's paranoid.

Most girls turn down a guy at the start because we don't want to do this to them, that’s why you’re in the “friend zone” aka she said “no”